Thelma I. Lloyd (Mercer)

 

Of Everett on May 16^th. Wife of the Bernard. Loving mother of Suzanne Lloyd and her husband Donald Vacheresse of Everett, Deborah Paschal and her husband Justin of Nashua, NH, Florence, Bernard Jr., Richard all of Everett.  Sister of Thomas Mercer of Milford and the late Donald Mercer.  Also survived by 2 grandchildren: James Jr. and Ashley.   Funeral arrangements from Salvatore Rocco & Sons Funeral Home 331 Main Street EVERETT.  Visiting hours will be held on Thursday, May 20^th from 4:00 pm to 8:00 pm. Please omit flowers. Donations in Thelma's memory may be made to the American Lung Association, 460 Totten Pond Rd., Suite 400, Waltham, MA 02451.

Rocco Carr-Henderson Funeral Home

1-877-71-ROCCO

www.roccofuneralhomes.com

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F.W.WEBB

  

Justin & Deb,

We would like to extend our deepest sympathies for your loss.

S Ford

  

Although we have never met, I am deeply saddened by your loss. We all are touched by the loss of a loved one. Please know that God will be with you to comfort and soothe your heart. Psalms 34:18 says that He is near to those broken at heart and saves those crushed in spirit. Always remember the promises found in His Holy Word. Please accept my sincere condolences.

Ruth Gately

  

To Thelma's Family:

It's hard to find the words to express how badly I feel about the loss of my dear friend Thelma, and my heart goes out to all of you!!!

Love,

Ruthie

cathy mclaughlin work

  

richie sorry to hear about your mom if you need to talk write me or i will see you at work sorry i can't be there take it easy remember the good times with your mom

Suzanne

  

To my wonderful family,

Mom is now at peace, she was the best mom that anyone could ask for. My love to all my brothers and sisters and father. I will be there for all of you whenever you need me. Mom will always be in our hearts don't forget that the more we remember we will never forget. I love you all.

Love always,
Suzane

Barbie Brady

  

Please accept my sincere condolences on the sudden passing of your Mother. I wish I had words to help lighten your agony, but sometimes words are not enough. May the love of your family and friends comfort you at this time. She will be sadly missed by all that were fortunate enough to know her. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Barb

DAUGHTER

  

DEAR MOM,I KNOW YOU CAN READ THIS, AND I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT I ALREADY MISS YOU SO MUCH...IM GONNA MISS OUR TALKS WE HAD EVERYDAY FOR THE LAST 25 +YEARS...2,3,4 TIMES A DAY EVEN FOR 2 HOURS AT A TIME...I DONT KNOW WHAT IM GONNA DO EVERY MORNING NOW...YOU SHOULDN''T OF BEEN TAKEN FROM US ALREADY, IM SO MAD YOU WERE TAKEN SO YOUNG...I KNOW YOU WERE IN A LOT OF PAIN..BUT I WISH YOU WERE STILL HERE WITH US...I MISS YOU DEARLY...YOU WERE THE BEST MOTHER ANYONE COULD EVER ASK FOR...I LOVE YOU SO,SO MUCH....ITS HARD RIGHT NOW BUT IM GONNA TRY AND GET THRU THIS...HOPE TO SEE YOU REALLY SOON...PLEASE COME VISIT ME...I LOVE YOU ALWAYS, YOUR DAUGHTER DEBBIE...XOXOXO

DAUGHTER

  

GOOD MORNING MOM, WELL ANOTHER HARD DAY...DONT KNOW IF I CAN DO THIS...BUT IM TRYING....I TALK TO YOU EVERYDAY AND NIGHT...IM WAITING FOR YOU TO COME VISIT ME..YOU KNOW GRAMPY DID WHEN HE PASSED...MAYBE YOUR JUST HAVING TO MUCH FUN RIGHT NOW WITH YOUR FAMILY UP THERE...BUT COME SEE ME SOON...I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO, SO MUCH...DEBBIE

DAUGHTER

  

WELL ITS BEEN ONE WEEK ALREADY AND I STILL CANT BELIEVE YOUR GONE...IM TRYING SO HARD TO MOVE ON AND I JUST CANT SEEM TO DO IT...I HAVENT TALKED TO ANYONE AND I KNOW YOU WOULDNT LIKE THAT, BUT I JUST CANT DO IT RIGHT NOW WITHOUT BREAKING DOWN...I MISS YOU SO MUCH MOM....I WISH YOU COULD JUST COME BACK TO ME TO ALL OF US...YOU HELD OUR FAMILY TOGETHER...YOU WERE THE BEST MOM I EVER KNEW!!!..I LOVE YOU ALWAYS...DEBBIE

DAUGHTER

  

GOOD MORNING MOM, SUCH A BEAUTIFUL DAY OUT TODAY....I WANNA TRY AND ENJOY IT BUT I STILL FEEL LIKE ITS WRONG FOR ME TO BE HAPPY WITH OUT YOU HERE ..I WISH I WASNT HAVING SUCH A HARD TIME BUT I AM...AND IM STILL MAD AT THE WORLD FOR TAKING YOU FROM ME...I WISH THERE WAS SOMETHING I COULD DO TO BRING YOU BACK BUT I KNOW THAT CANT HAPPEN...IM STILL WAITING FOR YOU TO COME SEE ME...I WAIT EVERYNIGHT AS IM TALKING TO YOU THAT YOU MIGHT COME...BUT ILL WAIT AS LONG AS I HAVE TO...I HOPE YOUR HAVING A BEAUTIFUL DAY UP THERE....I LOVE YOU ALWAYS DEBBIE...XOXO

DAUGHTER

  

GOOD MORNING MOM, HAVING ANOTHER BAD DAY...I THINK YOU KNOW THAT...SO IL MAKE THIS SHORT...STILL MISSING YOU SO VERY MUCH....I LOVE YOU SO,SO MUCH!!! DEBBIE..XOXOXO

DAUGHTER

  

GOOD MORNING MOM, ITS A BEAUTIFUL DAY OUT....AGAIN IM SURE YOU KNOW THAT...I THINK YOU'LL BE HAPPY I STARTED TALKING TO SUZANNE AND FLORENCE AGAIN...IT WAS JUST HARD TO TALK TO ANYONE WITHOUT WANTING TO CRY...BECAUSE I KNOW WE ARE GONNA JUST TALK ABOUT YOU AND I CAN'T HANDLE THAT....I ALSO BEEN TALKING WITH BARBIE ITS EASIER TALKING WITH A FRIEND RIGHT NOW THEN FAMILY..EVENTUALLY I'LL CALL THE BOYS...IM GONNA TRY AND GET THRU MY FIRST DAY WITHOUT CRYING TODAY...TRY IS THE WORD..I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH...LOVE DEBBIE....XOXOX

DAUGHTER

  

HI MOM,..WELL I REALLY THOUGHT I WAS GONNA HAVE A GOOD DAY TODAY...BUT OF COURSE IM NOT...ITS ACTUALLY A VERY BAD DAY...I KEEP SAYING IM GONNA GET THRU THIS..BUT THE TRUTH IS I DONT THINK I WILL EVER GET OVER THIS...I TRY TO THINK OF GOOD TIMES WE HAD BUT IT STILL DOESNT DO ANYTHING FOR ME...MAKES ME MISS YOU EVEN MORE...I WANNA TRY AND JUST GET THRU ONE DAY AND I CANT SEEM TO DO IT....I MISS YOU SO MUCH AND I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH....DEBBIE....XOXOX

DAUGHTER

  

HI MOM, I WAS TRYING TO GO AND HAVE A GOOD DAY TODAY...BUT I STILL JUST CANT DO IT...I MISS YOU SO MUCH MOM....I KNOW YOUR RESTING IN PEACE NOW...I JUST WISH YOU WERE HERE...IM SO LOST WITHOUT YOU....ITS ALREADY GONNA BE 2 WEEKS TOMORROW AND I STILL CANT BELIEVE YOUR GONE...I AM STILL VERY ANGRY....I LOVE YOU SO MUCH MOM....XOXO

DAUGHTER

  

HI MOM, WELL IM GONNA START A NEW WEEK....AND IM REALLY HOPING TO ENJOY IT....IM GOING TO YORK BEACH MAINE WHERE YOU ALWAYS TOLD US WE SHOULD GO...I REALLY WANNA PUT A SMILE ON MY FACE TODAY...ITS MEMORIAL DAY AND I COULDNT NOT RIGHT TO YOU TODAY...IM GONNA TRY TO STOP WRITING TO YOU SO MUCH...I THINK THAT HAS A LOT OF ME NOT BEING ABLE TO TRY AND GET ON WITH MY LIFEI LOVE AND MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH MOM..XOXO

DAUGHTER

  

WELL I DID IT MOM...WENT TO YORK BEACH MAINE TODAY AND HAD A GREAT DAY....STILL THOUGHT ABOUT YOU WHILE I WAS THERE BUT I WAS HAPPY FOR THE FIRST TIME IN WEEKS...ILL NEVER STOP MISSING YOU...I LOVE YOU MOM....XOXOX

DAUGHTER

  

HI MOM, WELL TODAY WAS A REALLY,REALLY BAD DAY...I ACTUALLY PICKED UP THE PHONE TO CALL YOU....I THINK MY HURT AND SADNESS IS TURNING TO ANGER...IM SO ANGRY TODAY...I JUST CANT TAKE IT...IM TAKING IT OUT ON EVERYBODY...IM TRYING NOT TO BUT ITS REALLY HARD....IM JUST MISSING YOU SO MUCH...I DONT SEE IT EVER ENDING...I DONT REALLY WANT IT TO END....I DONT WANT YOU TO THINK I STOPPED THINKING ABOUT YOU..AND THAT WILL NEVER EVER HAPPEN...I MISS AND LOVE YOU SO,SO VERY MUCH......XOXOX

DAUGHTER

  

HI MOM, WELL MY ANGER IS REALLY GETTING WORSE....I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO..I FOUND A CARD YOU SENT ME A FEW MONTHS AGO AND YOU ENDED IT WITH ILL SEE YOU SOON LOVE YOU MOM.....I JUST LOST IT...I REALLY THINK MORE AND MORE I NEED HELP...MOM I JUST CANT HANDLE THIS...I WANT YOU BACK SO BAD....I MISS AND LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH...XOXO

DAUGHTER

  

HI MOM, WELL ITS BEEN A COUPLE DAYS SINCE I WROTE...I FIGURE IF I DONT WRITE AS MUCH IT WONT KEEP HURTING SO MUCH...BUT IT DOES...I RALLY DONT THINK ITS EVER GONNA STOP UNLESS YOU TELL ME TO STOP HURTING...MOM I JUST MISS YOU SO MUCH...LIFE IS SO DIFFERENT WITH OUT HERE ..I HATE IT SO MUCH...I WISH THERE WAS A WAY YOU COULD COME BACK TO US BUT I KNOW THAT COULD NEVER HAPPEN...I CAN ALWAYS WISH THOUGH...I LOVE YOU SO MUCH MOM...XOXOX

DAUGHTER

  

WELL MOM I CAN NOT BELIEVE THAT IT HAS ALREADY BEEN A MONTH SINCE YOU BEEN GONE...AND MY HEART IS STILL JUST AS BROKE AS THE DAY YOU LEFT US....MOM IM SO LOST WITHOUT YOU...I WISH I KNEW WHAT TO DO...I STARE AT MY PHONE EVERY MORNING WAITING TO TALK TO YOU...I DONT LIKE LIVING WITHOUT YOU....IM NOT THE SAME PERSON I USE TO BE AND DONT THINK I EVER WILL BE AGAIN...I JUST WANT YOU BACK SO BAD MOM....I MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH MOM.....XOXOX

DAUGHTER

  

HI MOM, WELL i WENT ABOUT 5 DAYS WITH OUT WRITTING AND i JUST FEEL LIKE ITS WRONG...I WENT OVER SUZANNES YESTERDAY...IM SURE YOU WERE HAPPY TO SEE THAT...IT WAS NICE BEING THERE...I STILL MISS YOU MOM EVERYDAY MINUTE OF EVERYDAY....EVERYTIME I THINK OF THE GOOD TIMES LIKE EVERYONE TELLS ME TOO BUT I THINK IT JUST MAKES THINGS WORSE CUZ I CANT EVER SEE YOU HAPPY AGAIN....I HATE THIS MOM...JUST WISH I COULD BE HAPPY....SOME TIMES I AM...BUT I FEEL LIKE ITS SO WRONG...JUST WISH I KNEW WHAT TO DO...I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH MOM!!....LOVE YOUR DAUGHTER DEBBIE..XOXOXO

DAUGHTER

  

HI MOM, WELL ITS BEEN 6 LONG WEEKS SINCE YOU BEEN GONE...AND I STILL CANT BELIEVE IT...I REALLY AM TRYING TO GET ON WITH MY LIFE BUT ITS STILL JUST WAY TO HARD...I MISS YOU MORE AND MORE EVERY DAY..IT DOES NOT GET ANY EASIER AT ALL..I BELIEVE IT GETS HARDER CUZ I KNOW IM NEVER GONNA SEE YOU AGAIN...I ACTUALLY PICKED UP THE PHONE AGAIN TODAY AND THOUGHT I WAS GONNA CALL YOU...THAT KILLS ME MORE THEN ANYTHING KNOWING IM NOT EVER GONNA TALK ON THE PHONE WITH YOU ANYMORE...I GOT MY SURGERY DATE..ITS AUGUST 30TH..AND I GOTTA SAY IM NOT SCARED ANYMORE...YOU WILL EITHER BE MY ANGEL WATCHING OVER ME OR IF I DONT MAKE IT THRU THIS AT LEAST I WILL BE WITH YOU...AND I REALLY WONT MIND BEING WITH YOU AGAIN...ID BE VERY HAPPY WITH YOU...IT IS A VERY DANGEROUS SURGERY SO WE'LL SEE WHAT HAPPENS....I LOVE YOU SO MUCH MOM.....GOOD NIGHT...SEE YOU IN MY DREAMS...LOVE DEBBIE

DAUGHTER

  

HI MOM, WELL ITS BEEN A FEW DAYS SINCE I WROTE....NOT FEELING TO GOOD...THINK ITS STREP...YOU KNOW ME ALWAYS GETTING THAT...BUT REALLY HAVENT BEEN SICK IN A LONG TIME...ANYWAY TRIED CALLING RICHIE AGAIN TODAY BUT DAD SAID HE WAS SLEEPING...DONT KNOW WHY HE ISNT TALKING TO ME...I KEEP TRYING THO....I WENT OUT WITH JUSTINS PARENTS OVER THE WEEKEND, IM SURE YOUR SHOCKED TO HEAR THAT,BUT IT WAS FOR HIS BIRTHDAY....IT WAS A NICE CHANGE....I MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH...LOVE DEBBIE....XOXO

Melody Bizzarro Raimo

  

Dear Bernie, Richie and Girls.
I am so Sorry about your mom. I just found out today. I am so Deeply sorry for your loss. I know there are no words to help heal the pain. I have fond memories of your mom when i was younger growing up on foster street. She was always very nice to me. You have a guardian angel looking over you all now. And maybe She is up there with my mom Smiling down upon us all.
In sincere sympathy,
Melody

DAUGHTER

  

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM.....I MISS YOU SO MUCH!!!....I LOVE YOU MORE THEN YOU WILL EVER KNOW!!!!......IM HURTING SO BAD INSIDE...NOBODY SEES THE PAIN I AM IN...WISH YOU WERE HERE....I LOVE YOU.....DEBBIE...<3 <3

DAUGHTER

  

HI MOM....WELL HAD A BAD DAY TODAY...MY FIRST BIRTHDAY WITHOUT YOU...IM SO SAD MOM...WISH YOU WERE HERE...I MISS YOU SO MUCH!!..THINGS ARE STILL NOT THE SAME AND I DONT THINK EVER WILL BE...IM GOING IN FOR SURGERY ON THE 13TH AND I NEED YOU TO BE MY ANGEL THROUGH THIS...IM REALLY SCARED...I LOVE YOU SO MUCH MOM....REST IN PARADISE....<3 <3 .......XOXO...DEBBIE

DAUGHTER

  

Hi Mom, well its been a long time...I was just going thru an avon book and saw all kinds of things in there i know you would be buying...I know how much you loved ordering avon...but of course I couldnt do it without breaking down mom...I miss you so much mom...I would do anything to have you back...its just not fair you were taking away from us...im so so angry!!....Richie still isnt talking to me and jim I guess....never thought that would happen..but nothing i can do....thats how he wants to be....he really hurt jims feelings not calling him on his birthday and now saying things about him the night of your wake...not knowing how devastated he was...he didnt know what to do..I told him to go for a walk with Leighann and so they ate something..and rich is mad about that i guess..he dont understand jim never lost anyone before..he was scared to death in there...wish everything would just go back to how we were...but i doubt that will ever happen....maybe you can talk to him mom....I love you so much mom...rest in paradise...I love you...your daughter Debbie...xoxox

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